How to Choose Better Relationship Partners (Business Tactics)

Do you really want better relationship partners?

Are you guilty of choosing the same type of romantic partners over and over again? Well, maybe it is because you are not researching the root cause of this reoccurring issue. Many people have not taken the time to find out which types of people we can get along with. Part of the reason is that we are all so selfish and are always focusing on what we want out of the relationships. So how do we fix this?

Look at Relationships like a Business

I believe that we should look at life and relationships like a good business. In business, there is a term called Quality Management Principles (QMP) and it is used as a foundation to guide an organization’s performance improvement. In this case, “you” are the organization. QMP consist of 7 quality management principles and the first one is: Customer Focus. Now take a wild guess at who is the customer in this scenario. That’s right, it is the person with whom you are in the romantic relationship.

Exceed Expectations and have Better Relationships

The Customer Focus Statement of QMP says: The primary focus of quality management is to meet customer requirements and to strive to exceed customer expectations. So you implement this business principle into your relationship and selection process, you will really look at who it is you are choosing and decide if this is what they want for their life and if you really think it will work for your life.

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hey so it’s funny I was talking to a
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friend I have friends all over the world
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and it’s so funny how similar people are
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no matter if they live in Europe Asia
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Africa or the u.s. like the
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personalities of people people are
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people they just do certain things
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differently but people are people but I
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was talking to this young lady in she
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has a complicated family structure you
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know she has some things where her
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family sometimes they don’t talk
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sometimes they don’t get along
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everybody’s different and sees things
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their own way and so she was dating a
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dude who their family was like everybody
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got along they were really close
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everything has always been easy so he
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didn’t really have a good understanding
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whenever she had a problem or she wasn’t
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talking to a family member he couldn’t
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identify with it at all so he kind of
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felt like she was crazy and she was
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really excited about this guy so when
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she stopped dating him I said hey you
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know you’re not hanging out with that
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guy don’t want that everything was so
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good she goes yeah it didn’t really work
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out I said well what did you think you
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know cuz I always think that every time
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we date somebody we should learn
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something from it like learn either
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something that we want to do or we don’t
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want to do again and she said you know
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what I learned I need somebody who
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understands complicated family
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situations if you can’t identify with
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some of the struggles that I’m having
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you’re just gonna think that I’m crazy
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and it’s always gonna be a problem
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so she learned that about herself she
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wanted someone who understood that and
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it was funny because not soon after that
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I was talking to another young lady in
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she had a friend that dated IceCube son
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I think a long time ago maybe when
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they’re in high school or something but
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her the girl she had like a lot of drama
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in her life she was used to you know her
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family arguing and different things and
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she started Lots arguments and IceCube
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son wasn’t used to that because ice
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cubes and his wife apparently they don’t
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argue they just get along and things are
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pretty easy
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and smooth so to him it was crazy to be
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dating somebody that always wanted to
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argue and there was always a problem he
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just couldn’t deal with that so when
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you’re looking for someone you got to
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think about what their experiences are
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somebody who’s used to arguing and
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fighting kind of likes to argue and
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fight someone who’s not used to any
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drama a lot of times they don’t wouldn’t
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he drama in their life so you’re gonna
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have to decide turn around this way
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because the Sun is this way and I look a
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little brighter but you have to decide
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what you want and each person has to
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decide what they want for their lives so
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think about the experiences because our
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experiences shape us don’t just assume
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because you’re one way or because your
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perspective on life is a way be mindful
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of the person who you’re dealing with
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and what they’ve been used to because
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that’s gonna shape how they react to you
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and your problems and also to what they
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want in their life you know and of
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course there’s always the opposite you
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know I’ve seen lots of drama and
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different things in my life and I don’t
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want drama in my life
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so there’s always those cases but you
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just need to be mindful of someone else
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don’t only look at things from your own
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point if you think about from someone
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else’s point of view what are their
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experiences what are they used to and
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what do they want

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